I just  relized  the  potential of the mage class and  have starting  focusing  most of my efforts to become a great mage, i box a 85 SHAMAN, 85 SK, 83 BST, and as of right now i am a   casual player and  used  to raid  hardcore on my shaman, but  due  to work and RL issue i have decided  to become an casual player  who does  PU raid once in a while. The  PU raid  content i referr to is MMM, and crystallos.......for  right now till i can get into a good  rythym of getting the hang  of  the mage  class. 
I have  read  nurmerous post on the mage class but still am lacking something to make  me  a Great  mage
 I have been around EQ  for  6 years and know the ropes on some class, but  dont  claim  to know  enough about the mage  class, so i am asking  for  advice  on 
1. grouping
2. raiding
3. general aid to fellow Eqer's
4. I want  to know how to get high on parse list ??...........i will list my spell line up below.
I have  been  working on the  following  clickies;
{XX} Epic 2.0
{XX} Spirit Mark Armor;  Elemental Essence Robe
{XX] OOW TUNIC;  Glyphwielder's Tunic of the Summoner
{XX]  Fabled Kelp Hilted Mace 
{  }    Feral Guardian Channeler
I have been  working  on the following flaggs:
{XX} MPG trials
{  }   solt access
{XX}  COA flagged............old school style
{XX}  DON progression complete ......up to  vish
{XX}  Vergald  lower level acces  complete
{   }  AG raid acces
{   }  FC raid access
{XX}  MMM group keyed
{    } MMM raid keyed.......missing  Big bynn, and  Deepscar raids
{XX} Crystallos grouped keyed
{XX} SOD progression  done up to Void  " E " 
here is what i do on PU raids
1. malos
2. cast Pyro
3/ cast bolt
3. send  in  RS pet
4. /rinse repeat.............till out  of mana
5. hit rod
6. send in  swarm 
7. cast jolt
8. click both tunics
9. /cross fingers and  hope  i make  parse
Grouping 
1. assist SK
2. press hot key...........pyro, bolt, RS pet
MY Q
1. i hardley  make  parse.....how  do i get on  it  EVERTIME??
2. do i need  anymore clcikies to be effecient 
3. did  i miss any FLaggs that may help me  in long run
magelo: 
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Thanks  in advance